Published by HladoHlas Group, spol. s r. o.,

Rumunskej armády 1/6, 036 01 Martin, Slovakia,

in 2016 as its 78th publication.

Translation from the Slovak language Barbora Golanová

Proofreading Georgina Andrews

Book cover Zuzana Kadecká and Andrea Hoštáková

Book cover image Pavol Majko

Illustrations Janka Sofia Thomková

Layout Andrea Hoštáková, Pavel “Hirax” Baričák

First edition  Printed by Fork

Contact the author:

hirax@hirax.sk

Facebook: Pavel “Hirax” Baričák (writer)

ISBN 978-80-89711-61-1

Primer of Happiness

Pavel “Hirax” Baričák

Adults to kids,

kids to the world

(sample)

This book is really written by Sára Ráchel Baričáková, Samo Leo Baričák and all the kids that wanted to say something through me and they cleverly came into my life.

And of course, Providence, that blessed me with the ability to see and take on everything that was supposed to be seen and sent forward.

Author

Acknowledgements, sources, influences: mum and dad, wife Ivka, daughter Sára Ráchel, son Samo Leo, Kevin Leman, Thovt, Alexander Sutherland Neill, Sofia, Maria Montessori, Simona Martišová, Janko Marton, Dadka and all who were sending me quotes, observations and experiences with their kids as well as from their lives. Without them this book would be like hot chocolate without milk.

Dictionary

Home is where we come back after leaving the physical body. So if we regularly leave and do not stay “flying” somewhere in between space.

Matrix what I call everything that is around us: healthcare, economy, service, politics, media, state… Simply the system pretending that it is here for us but in reality it does not wish that we open our eyes and be happy because otherwise it would lose its money, position, lose its power. And so it wakes up fear in us…

My children are Sára Ráchel the eldest and son Samko Leo who Sárka called fourteen months after her incarnation to Earth. People who do not know, are mostly confused when I call my children once with first name and few lines later with the second name.

Sofia that I mention often in the text, is my non blood sister, normal being from meat and bones that masters a lot of technologies for diagnosis of the body, soul but also the communication with Truth. She is wisdom and love itself, and it’s not only me that is thankful for her clearing a lot of connections.

Surge is a word created by me with which I call life as the being in the waves. Once we are up, one a lesson comes and we are down. So do not see any mistake in the word, not even coincidence, or fault.

Before you start guiding kids and getting to know yourselves through kids  and your childhood

By no means, do not blame yourselves that you made a mistake  during the education of your children; that you did not progress kindly or wisely, but simply that you could raise them better. Everything was supposed to be the way it happened. You were the most ideal parents for your children, that is why they chose you. They wanted exactly you and no one else, because you were the best starting position for their present life  mission. You did everything the best you knew at that time, so no self-blaming.

In the same principle I advise all to stop with blaming of parents that they are the reason behind your “broken” life. You should better focus on why there is something in you that you are not content with, that hurts you and taking from you. Understand it, considering your childhood, accept it and melt it. After all, you chose your parents for a reason. They were really the best for you.

The book is not complex. There are many topics about education and the raising of a child. I only wrote about those that resonated in me.

Remember constantly that I am only whispering, but your heart will tell you which lines in this book are the truth for you too. Hold only the truth and start using it as an instrument.

For a kinder tomorrow of the whole of humanity and everything living on this amazing planet.

Do not idealize Baričák’s family

The experts say that until six years old most of the character´s attributes, attitudes and perspectives of the world, will anchor themselves in the young person. Indirectly, Albert Einstein confirmed it, who said that if we do not know how to explain something to a six year old, we do not understand the problem. We should replace the complicated sentences by simple ones; simplify the principle of the system of things to its basic centre.

I finished this book when our eldest Ráchel was coming close to the age of three and half years old and her younger brother Leo was no more than two years old. Do not take it as the first part about raising children with the expectation that I will write a continuation three years later. I do not know what will be. My heart plans for me; it is whispering to me what I should start. Same as now when it told me that we discovered enough and we should better put it on paper before it fades away or the flying dragon of time will steal it.

Please, do not idealize the Baričák´s family and me as a super father, the expert of education. Please don´t! We are common family with our sadness and joys, where the crying of unhappy children can be heard and the raised voices of a parent whose nerves are stretched. It can calmly happen that you will meet us somewhere in a restaurant and after ten minutes of observation you will sum up that we are only the next “arrogant” parents that do not know what to do with their “spoiled” children. To be honest, it already happened. In June in 2014 we flew to Turkey for the holidays. The children started “training” us already during the way from Martin (city in Slovakia) to the airport in Poprad (city in Slovakia), so you can imagine the situation with our nerves in the evening around seven o´clock, when we arrived to dinner after two and half hour flight, stays at the airports, travelling to the hotel, accommodation… I had bags under my eyes that every gymnast would love to train on, and Ivka from time to time exploded like Krakatoa (a large volcanic island in Indonesia) because none of us knew where to take energy from to stop the children´s tsunami.

We sat down to a table with three young women who had the honour to watch the surge of a family in the half-time of decay. Sárka was screaming because she did not want to sit in a child´s chair. Samko was childishly throwing food everywhere and there was no power in us to eternally say something to him or very likely to clean up after him. In those unsettled moments I remembered a story of a friend that worked as a waitress in an American restaurant for one year. She described her first meeting with one American family where the parents were sitting calmly and eating, while the two kids were throwing the chips under the table and pouring ketchup on it and laughing. They did not warn them once. When she informed the manager in a panic, he explained to her that they are customers, the parents came here to relax and the obligation of the staff to clean up after the kids without a word because the people are paying for it and it is very common in America. I almost forgot to close my mouth from the amazement and I said something in the sense that it is “the bad manners and absolute improperness”. That was in a time when I was judging everything strongly and mainly I did not have kids.

Since then ten years have passed and in my mind I came back to the five star hotel in Turkey, where I was sitting with my wife as Ali Pasha with hot red aura, nervously watching our “misbehaved” kids, “manipulative energetic leeches”, and I was choking in the instinct of a prehistoric hunter with the mantra: “You do not kill!”

My wife and my batteries were empty,, we resigned. I realised that we looked like absolutely useless parents at that moment. Even the Turkish waiters were showing it to us non verbally, that did not know what to do first in the chaos of a full room, plus serving and cleaning up after one spoiled Slovak family.

It was in that time when I believed that it is necessary to give to your children only unconditional love. I admit, I did not give limits to my children, Ivka was trying it instinctively and with a big amount of nervousness, so it is not surprising that the two small martens (as our hunter father-in-law is calling kids with love) ate us with the shoes on.

When the women at our table finished eating, one of them stood up and came to me: “Excuse me, mister Baričák, I do not want to bother you… I am a faithful reader of yours; I love to read your books. I have one of your books here with me. I just wanted to say it to you and especially thank you.”

I could not say a word, I only stumbled something feebly. With her compliment and gratitude, she created an immediate reciprocal pole to my momentary discontent with myself as a parent. Something deep inside of me squeaked that my wife and I are doing something wrong with the education of our kids.

And so I focused on that, from that observation, this book was born…

“Raise your children towards love to the Saint earth, so they will not get fooled by overseas oddities, but so they could create miracles larger and more beautiful to the glory

of Saint earth of yours.”

Perún

Part One

There is no child that would not be born enlightened

Incarnation and life

We are born here more pure than the morning condensation. In the moment when the male sperm enters female egg, there is a forwardly chosen godly soul coming into such an emerging body. It is perfectly rinsed after the last incarnation, enlightened again and ready in the best way to learn again through arranged personal lessons on a gorgeous planet Earth and move closer towards Light. This soul, coming straight from the Source, disposes of everything godly. It lives here and now, it is perfectly vigilant, it sees miracles in everything; it only needs love, warmth and food for happiness.

Those are the needs of the enlightened people. They do not need to collect properties, fame, power, “beautiful”, “original” for their harmony, or to raise themselves the adrenalin by a touch with death so they would be amazed by the miracle of being. A realised person, I mean the one who puts the theory of spiritual wisdom into practice and pursues it through himself, he lives in the present moment and sees godly intention in everything. As well as every kid of the world. Every kid. Osho said that there is no child who would not be born wise but that someone should show him a wise adult. I agree with him, all the children come here enlightened.

Seeing that the earthly world is not composed only by the realised beings, we are born to more or less “dirty” families. Every one of us is on a different spiritual level and different level of awakening. What will a soul with a spiritual talent of Buddha give to world if it is not waken up yet and even in its forties, sitting nonstop tipsy in a pub? What are the words “I love you” for, when the person does not show it with his behaviour, gratitude, respect or kindness? Love that is not expressed is not love.

Modern people are perfectly cheating themselves. They tell themselves that they have understood almost everything and there is only small step missing for the final content. With this persuasion and pride of a fullest “civilized” person, they raise a being and glue one stain after another on its flawless white base. It starts with mentioned connection of two human cells, it continues with birth of a new person and a two or three decade’s long “education”. In some cases even longer. It depends on the level of damage of the “software from the parents”. Humility is one of the gates to fortune. So do not ever forget that we are not on holiday here, but in school.

Finally degenerates are coming into the world. From pure enlightened beings become robots filled with fear and with a big amount of defective programs, like for example untamed ego, low self-esteem, the model of a guilty person or victim. Souls deformed this way have no other choice than to express themselves in different forms of energetic vampires. Every breakaway from harmony is used by different behaviour so it would “survive” and so the word goes to judgment, defamation, tale bearing, blaming, moaning, jealousy, cheating, avarice, humiliation, greed, stealing even killing.

Of course, the good has stayed in each and every one of us. We still know how to smile, to selflessly give to someone, to listen, to help, there is humility in us, kindness, compassion and love. It is only about the proportion of the mixed palette. Everything “not good” that comes from a person is created only by lack of love. If an individual does not use the talent he was given, the potential gifts will disappear and change into vice and addiction. If a child, that was a leader of a gang and announced ‘Brat’, will get into an environment of love or free school, the child will become full-hearted supporter of rights, justice and order. It is the same way according to this universal equation with an adult, who does not use the gifts from God, he can become sour and the good and love in him will change into anger, hatred and in the hurting of others. Dislike towards yourself will show with the dislike towards the outside world. He will think more about attacking, revenge or blaming.

Nothing happens by chance; that is why we choose the families where we are supposed to experience and see disrespect, humiliation, physical maltreatment, superiority, rudeness or other forms of dislike. All of these experiences are the starting position for a child, the same as the one where the child ended in the last incarnation.

The other side of a coin is a soul that needs to get excessive intake of love during childhood so it will choose a loving couple as parents. Eventually, it will multiply their grace for example by leaving from the womb of the mother in the third month of pregnancy and during the second incarnation it has the assurance that it will get even more love from the same parents because of the previous loss of the foetus, the spouses will look forward to the born baby several times more.

A soul that was cruel in the last life and enforced everything by fight and violence can choose as parents a couple where at least one of them will be  a person filled with anger, applying a strict education on the child with a minimum of love and tenderness. One of the personal tasks of this child will be to open emotionally and understand that the only way forward is the way of love and tolerance towards everything around us.

A being that ended in a chaos with a lot of open affairs in the last incarnation, can choose for its arrival for example a couple having sex while intoxicated by drugs at a hip hop festival. It knows very well that the father will leave them right before becoming two years old and the mother will be emotionally unstable so she will be changing partners often. This kind of soul needs to swell the instability, disharmony in childhood, so it will become a being that will not have its life strength activated.

God is waiting when we start to perceive everything godly and with understanding. The words of one of my Czech readers admit that: “I picked  a completely dysfunctional family and my childhood was not really easy. It was hard to find peace in myself. I have lived with my mum since I was three years old because my father left us. Anyway, I am grateful for it because thanks to it  I am a strong and open person that appreciates every little thing. I have learned how to forgive.”

And like this we could continue indefinitely. A man, a novel. The same universal equations, just different kicks. The same pains, just different shouting that creates them. The same talents, just different connections that wake them up. The weakness in parents will create the weakness in children. The real strength will shoot from a person when he will become a free individual with a developed spiritual level which he can achieve by getting rid of the defective programs and accepting, discovering and getting to know Himself. The real kindness can only shoot from an open, healthy heart. A person will gain clear thinking when he illuminates his inner self and becomes bright. This kind of thinking is the older brother of the inner vision. Without it his sister will never become a ballerina.

So it is with all the positive influences on our souls, thanks to which we receive the instruments for realization of our earthly tasks. A person does not invent his life mission. He has to find it, recall it. He, who opens eyes through his heart, for him everything will gradually fold into one meaningful image. He will understand why he has the body he has, why somebody ever “hurt” him, why he did not get something in the childhood or the other way, why there was a lot of something else. An understanding soul will get to know through Itself the eternal order and Perfection. Life is a miracle of connections, conditional consequences, it is the wonder of the wonders of Love that multiply love through this form for the whole universe. We are the source of the Source, loved cells of God faithfully serving from the Earth to Entity.

We enter the world of “adults” armed with powerful and also damaging programs so we would constantly jab into each other. Like that we give each other needed lessons, exactly like we agreed before birth. “I steal from you so you will understand that not everything is about chasing goods. You will have a child from an affair with Zdeno’s wife, so she will experience it from the other side because in the past life she did it to other soul.” However, until we will wake up, we are only fighting and libelling our “teacher”. Exactly those who took the responsibility for our improvement on themselves. We think that they are the “mean” and the “bad” ones. It is because we do not make enough changes in ourselves.

At a certain point of living we understand that a mistake appeared somewhere; because of the increasing inner uneasiness, material deficiency, increasing spiritual pain, repeated kicks of “fate”, relationship failures, illnesses and pains make us think more often about happy living. That is when our rebirth occurs.

And with it the hunger for cleaning is born, that has to be preceded by self-knowledge, finding personal connections and gradual self-transformation. It is like a never ending process of discovering the hidden damaging mechanisms, annulations of the models of behaviour that take energy, getting rid of attachment, resuscitation of the awakening of the spirit, learning how to live in the present moment. Peeling of dried stains from our godly Self.

Summary? We were born here enlightened and we were like that until sleeping earthly camp-followers darkens almost everything godly in us, following excursive operation of the cleansing of the earthly collective consciousness. We sleep half of our lives and during the other half we try to enable what was put in our cradle at birth.

And so I thank all parents and people that were chosen by God to raise new souls for noticing and learning the godly from kids. I also thank them for admitting their fallibility and imperfection, but despite that they try to give the best from themselves to the freshly incarnated souls, from their Self touching the eternity.

God be with you.

Paľko von Daddy

Once, I pissed off Lola, who was five years old at the time, to which she replied: “Oh, mum, next time I will not pick you from the heavenly wall.”

“Mummy, do you know that when you had me in your stomach, I saw your liver?”

When our son was born, my daughter was four years old and she was sending me often to take him back to hospital. When she finally understood that it is not going to happen, she said to me: “Mum, at least change him for a girl!”

Table of Contents

Title page

Dictionary

Before you start guiding kids and getting to know yourselves through kids and your childhood

Do not idealize Baričák’s family

Part One

Incarnation and life

Part two

Part three

Part four

Part five