Zoltán Márton

13 Steps for a Successful Date

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Thirteen Steps for a Successful Date – Tried and tested tips

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Introduction

One morning I woke up and my heart was beating so fast that it made me sweat. I didn’t know what the cause of it could have been. I started to think about it right away. I have experienced this phenomenon a few times.

If you expect this book to show you some new miraculous methods, then you’ll be disappointed. But I will tell you about what I and some of the people I know have experienced that has impressed women. And I will also disprove the myth that men have to have big cars, expensive houses, thick bank accounts, or only wear designer clothes to get the woman of their dreams.

Here I would like to mention a statement by the Slovak President, Andrej Kiska: “Money will not be the thing that will make you happy in life. Having money is still a far cry from happiness.” He said this at a lecture when he was not yet president, but already a successful entrepreneur and a philanthropist. Of course, securing your future so that you can live comfortably and not despair is very important. Love is a beautiful thing and a child is a blessed gift to any relationship, but one must have at least some financial reserve, a well paying job, or a thriving business before advancing a relationship.

There are two great laws on Earth: the law of gravitation and the law of attraction.

The law of gravitation can be described as attractive force acting between substantive bodies – a power which attracts elements to one another. The second most powerful law is the law of attraction. Many of the books I have read on positive thinking have one thing in common: the law of attraction.

The law of attraction used to be a great unknown for me. I only got to understand its principles a couple of years ago. I knew at once that everything that was happening was happening exactly according to this law. Just as the law of gravitation affects all physical mass on the Earth, the law of attraction affects all the vibrations around us. We attract those things in life to which we pay the most attention and show the most emotions. Everything that comes into your life is drawn there by you. And it’s attracted to you on the basis of images that you keep in your mind. We attract things we desire, but, paradoxically, also those that concern us.

This law works everywhere and with everything. It doesn’t matter whether you are a man or a woman, a student or a working adult. There’s a very good book on the law of attraction written by Rhonda Byrne called The Secret. All the successful womanizers use this technique: they direct all their energy on one girl, focusing on getting her, and, eventually, they do.

I wanted to write this book especially for men so they could learn about the steps that are crucial to getting the woman they desire. People are mistaken if they think that money can buy them happiness. In most cases, it is just the opposite: if you’re happy, money will come your way. This advice, as well as the whole book, is not only for men, but also for women. You can choose the most important parts for you and define clearly in what way you want to improve.

If just one man gets his dream woman thanks to this book, then it’s been worth writing. However, I am sure it will, in one way or another, help all the people who read it – and it only takes a few hours to get through it.

Step 1

Be yourself. You can get any woman you want.

How can you get the woman of your dreams?

There are not many ads I would recommend you take a look at, but I recently saw a short advertisement while driving on a bus. A man in his mid 30’s is driving a car around town. It’s a brand new car, and as he drives it around and gets stuck in a traffic jam, he observes all the people outside: young couples in the park, happy children playing on the street, or a girl standing at a bus stop listening to music from her iPhone, lost in her thoughts.

He looks at his side seat, but it is empty and he seems sad. The next day, he takes the bus instead of driving the car. The girl from the previous day gets on the bus. They sit next to each other, talk, and laugh.

What’s the message? People go to work every day, often alone in their cars or other means of transport – they listen to music and do not talk to anyone, and yet they expect to meet the love of their lives. In this era of social networking, women have got used to the annoying: “Hi, how are you?” or “Hey, nice photo, wanna talk?” Women are generally immune to such messages. Social networks usually only work when a man and a woman meet in real life and then exchange contacts. I know real people, myself included, who have tested this theory and proven it to be right.

As far as talking to women goes, the Pareto principle, or the 80–20 rule, can also be applied here. According to it, we should devote 80% of our time to talking in person, or at least over the phone, and only 20% should be spent communicating via social media. The principle says that you’ll get 80 percent of your results from just 20 percent of your efforts in real life. So go for a walk together, go get a coffee or ice cream, spend time together.

Women remember experiences. They will remember that delicious dinner you invited her to (yes, it’s elegant and gallant), but they will also remember, perhaps even more so, the moment when you sit in the car after dinner and start kissing and the car moves because you accidentally forgot to use the hand brake. A woman will remember such experiences her whole life.

I guess you know what I’m trying to say.

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Table of Contents

Title page

Copyright

Introduction

Step 1: Be yourself. You can get any woman you want. How can you get the woman of your dreams?

Step 2: The criteria that you, as a man, must meet to achieve basic level

Step 3: Talk to pretty women. Why pretty women?

Step 4: Friend zone – how to get out of it?

Step 5: Meet as many women as possible

Step 10: 10 minor rules and advice what to do before a date

Step 11: 10 minor rules and advice what to do on a date

Bonus 1:TOP 3 excuses that women use